The Snake

Max & the snake
Whilst exercising and learning with Anne at Christopher’s we were introduced to the versatility of the stuffed snake in helping Massimo improve his positioning and learning to sit up. We duly bought a snake, largely thanks to Sheila who was going to IKEA anyway! On Sunday we placed Massimo on his mat with the snake behind him to teach him to lie on his right side. I went off to get Dad from St George’s whilst Justin got lunch ready. On coming back into the living room, J found Massimo had completely moved and was showing how pleased he was with his new snake, as demonstrated by this picture!

What a great day!!!!

Max ready for a swimWe have come back from a fabulous day at Christopher’s and have booked in to go twice next week!

The day started badly as J and I overslept and didn’t leave home until after we were supposed to have arrived, but the traffic was good to us and Marina didn’t mind!Marina & Max in the pool When we got there we immediately got into our swimming things and into the pool. As you can see from the picture, this was a complete success! In the pool we held him gently at first on his back and then in a rubber ring on his front but the biggest success was in the ring on his back, as can be seen in the picture with Justin. He also really enjoyed the jacuzzi but all footage of that is on video.
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Home again

Massimo has been off CPAP since 9 am yesterday morning and doing very well so we went to collect him this morning. He is currently here, happy in Annette’s arms having his feed. I’m sure he knows that he is due to go swimming for the first time tomorrow and didn’t want to miss out.

Last Wednesday we went to Christophers at Chase (www.chasecare.org.uk) and had a wonderful day there with Granny. Unfortunately we forgot our camera and had to rely on theirs, so there are pictures and we will get copies of them tomorrow. We are off to Christophers again tomorrow where Marina, Massimo’s assigned nurse, will be there ready and waiting. The plan is for a swim in the morning and a bath in the afternoon, possibly with a visit to the messy playroom to get paint all over our hands and feet.

A wheeze that just got worse

Massimo’s wheeze got progressively worse over the 24 hours to yesterday afternoon. The salbutamol nebuliser that I gave him didn’t seem to make much difference and at about 5 pm we took him in to PICU at St George’s to be reviewed. There they gave him two more salbutamol nebulisers and an adrenaline nebuliser and he seemed to settle and go to sleep.

In the night he had an episode of desaturation and difficulty in breathing so they put him on CPAP overnight. This morning he was happily back on just oxygen and we were getting ready to collect him. He has since had another episode and is back on CPAP. How long he will remain in PICU and on CPAP only time will tell.

Still here

Amazingly enough we are still at home. We have broken our 2 day record and have now been here for 5 days. Only one small hiccough in that Massimo had a wheeze on Saturday and by Sunday morning no amount of saline nebulisers helped so we popped in for a brief visit to PICU for a quick salbutamol nebuliser (asthma inhaler stuff in a nebuliser) which seemed to do the trick. He still has a slight wheeze but it is much better now. Of course all this happened whilst Justin was away overnight at a stag weekend, but we managed very well on our own except that the suction machine tipped over in the car and got the filter wet so it stopped working. I had to get my brother out of bed and round to PICU to rescue us with the spare part!

Quite the most interesting and important thing that has happened is that on Sunday morning Massimo took off his oxygen, a game he likes to play, and play quite well, but most significantly he did this with his right hand and then took the oxygen from his right hand with his left hand. Of course most babies learn to do this sooner but I am inordinately proud! Justin didn’t see it, of course, and I’m not quite sure he believes me.

Home! We’re home!

Max's homecomingMax and J asleep togetherI was just going to put the photos on and leave it at that, but I feel compelled to add a few words! Massimo is still on a fairly substantial drug regime and this will be weaned over the next two or three weeks and some of these drugs do make him quite sleepy and quiet. He is however, becoming more and more alert every day and slowly is regaining control over his muscles (the effects of the muscle relaxant are still there even though that was stopped 12 days ago). Verna looked after him last night and said he was “an angel”. The three of us are just having lots of quiet time together and enjoying every minute of it!

Planning our homecoming

Massimo has been doing so well with his breathing in the last couple of days that he spent all day on oxygen today with a view to being back on CPAP tonight and then off all day and all night tomorrow. Assuming that he copes with this we hope that he will be ready to come home on Wednesday.

Fingers crossed.