We have a diagnosis

Massimo has RSV bronchiolitis. I think it is like bronchitis, but it is a virus and therefore cannot be cured by antibiotics. It is rife during winter and babies who are premature or have been ventilated are more prone to it than others. Often it causes so much difficulty in breathing that the babies end up on a ventilator for a while, but so far, Massimo has managed on just some oxygen.

He seems much better to us now, but it is possible that he will get worse before he gets better (unless being unwell before and during Xmas counts!). He is still due to go to Great Ormond Street on 5th January or thereabouts to have his hickman line reset or replaced under general anaesthetic and we just have to hope that he will be well enough for it.

Happy New Year to everyone!

Christmas is over

Max and Father ChristmasOpening Max's Xmas presentsMassimo did come home for Christmas day. The doctor examined him bright and early and then kindly called to give us the good news. When we went to pick up the wee man we popped in to say a quick Merry Christmas to Nonno Roberto and deliver some smoked salmon to accompany his lunch (we think this was more appreciated than the visit!). Unfortunately Massimo didn’t feel brilliant whilst he was here and after a stressful half an hour coughing Jasper and the Christmas presents and with a temperature he spent the rest of his visit sleeping. He did however see Father Christmas on the ward before he came home and he has been thoroughly spoilt by all and sundry! A few gifts are in evidence in the picture but there were many more.

Jasper enjoyed making sure he also had fun.

Fingers crossed that Massimo will be better soon.

It’s Massimo’s First Christmas!

Serena and WilfKirsty and NedIt has been an awfully long time since our last entry and unfortunately Massimo has not managed to make it home yet. He seemed to get better and then on Friday (12th) we found an infection around his gastrostomy and started a course of oral antibiotics and then on Sunday (14th) he spiked a temperature and started two courses of IV (intravenous) antibiotics.

On Sunday 14th was also the Neonatal Unit Christmas party and although Massimo didn’t make it to the party, his little friends came up to Freddie Hewitt to see him. Ned and Wilf had their first fight (as you can see in the pictures) much to their mothers’ amusement and Alfie has grown so much he is hardly recognisable. (Kim and Alfie are in the first picture with Massimo here and he was much, much smaller then!)
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Another trip back to Freddie Hewitt

Nonna’s funeral on Wednesday went well and Massimo (with Sally in charge!) was waiting for everyone to come back to the house for refreshments. However I was brewing a bad throat and by Thursday morning I lost my voice. Luckily Simona stepped in and saved the day by looking after the wee man whilst I went back to bed. On Thursday night Verna came early to help out and when she put Max on the monitor she found that his saturations were low, running at best at 92% so she put him on oxygen and the next morning, in a calm and controlled fashion we called an ambulance, I stayed in bed (again!) whilst Justin took Max to A&E and then settled him up on the ward until the night staff started. The doctors have confirmed that he is well in himself and he does just have a bad cold and (if mine is anything to go by) a very sore throat.
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Same Venue, Different Time

The funeral will still be held at St Mary’s RC Church, Clapham Park Road, SW4 7AR but it will be at 5.30 pm. There will be refreshments here afterwards, 37 Upper Tooting Park, London SW17 7SN.

As before, we would prefer donations and these can be made either to Trinity Hospice, who looked after her so well, or to Friends of the Neonatal Unit. However, should you wish to send flowers please send them c/o Edmund & Sons Funeral Directors, 8a Clapham Park Road, London SW4 7AR.